Didi had a concert last night and this morning again. He was so excited that he did not know if he will take part. I was not sure either. Actually I thought he would not take part because usually if he does not want anything, he won’t do it. Well, at least HE is consequent! So I was quite uneasy: should I put some pressure on him? Later on he would like to have taken part. In the end I didn’t. Doesn’t feel good! I don’t want him to do anything he doesn’t want to. I don’t want him to play in the concert (or do whatever) only because I want that, I am so proud or whatever. So I told his music teacher and his teacher at school that I just don’t know how he will decide. In the end it was good the way he decided: he was very proud, he was part of his group and the whole thing was actually not that bad. He is grown, the little one.